"But honestly, inspector, I think that for your investigation, you need to know how my husband *felt*. To do that you need to know how it feels, emotionally, to be my guy. And so you need to know what it feels like to be with me in the most intimate way possible!"
You say you already know what it is like to be with a woman, and remind her that such relations would be strictly against regulations.
"I know you were married to Crystal, inspector. But Crystal is not a goddess, inspector. And she doesn't even really like having sex with men. Unlike her, I *am* a goddess, and I *do* really like having sex with men. And let me show you just how much of a difference that makes!"