"Well, that's just too bad now isn't it. You see, you are pathetic. A real man wouldn't let a woman degrade him like this, would he? No, of course not. A real man wouldn't let a woman tell him he couldn't cum for five years, would he? No, of course not. And a real man most certainly wouldn't let a woman tell him that he couldn't cum and that he had to kiss her pretty little ass instead of cuming, now would he? Hmm?"
You are humiliated, but answer her: "No."