Femdom Adventure for Couples
It's good that you are here. If your husband has shown you this tease, then you can assume that he knows roughly what is being played here. Let's not kid ourselves - he has probably been on Milovana for a long time.
Remember: for the duration of this tease/game you are in control! This does not mean that you have to play the mistress, but that your man obeys you - or takes the consequences if he does not. The tease is meant to be fun, but also to test boundaries. You'll be even closer afterward than you already were before.
Determine two safewords:
At the first one (e.g. "yellow") you stop and talk about what went too far. You can punish him a bit afterwards - it obviously wasn't that bad.
At the second (e.g. "red") you stop immediately. Be sure to talk about what triggered it.
The adventure is in two parts (two "sessions"). The sessions should be at least a day apart, but no more than 1 week. He must not have an orgasm in the time between the sessions! Of course, you can turn him on during the time. If you want, he may also jerk off. And if you know what a ruined orgasm is, you can allow him to have one too. It goes without saying that during this time he gives you all the orgasms you want and deserve.
Now enough of the prefaces, let's get down to business:
I want you to put on something you feel sexy but also comfortable in. Meanwhile, let him get the following toys (whether you send him naked or in underwear I leave up to you):
- dildo (vibrator) in penis shape
- blindfold (alternatively a scarf)
- Ties to tie him to the bed (alternatively handcuffs, a thicker rope or a bandana)
- Whip or wooden spoon
- Small freezer bag
If you want a drink or you forgot your keys in the car and want him to get them (naked?) - go ahead and tell him. He knows his safeword.
Did he bring everything?
Doesn't matter - you still tell him that he forgot something. All these toys are just for him, how selfish! Let him get another toy for you - he will know which one you like the most.
And now we can start having fun. Let him kneel in front of you like in the picture (hands behind his back, not tied) and put the blindfold on him.