How I Helped My Hubby to be Happier
I talked to him about it one evening to find out why he kept asking me to do something he didn't seem to enjoy. His response was that it was difficult getting past the shame he felt for wanting that. That floored me, we had always open and supportive of each other.
Getting deeper into the discussion I found out that he had tried a lot of times to work up the nerve after cumming to go down on me but couldn't bring himself to do it from a combination of lack interest after finishing and what I'd think about him. As the conversation developed he explained the only reason he asked was "he'd get to point that he needed it".
I felt I might have been a bit selfish because I knew whenever he asked he had no stamina and I felt cheated because I didn't get any pleasure all the while he wasn't getting what he felt he needed from our sex life.