Mmm, that's right, make me feel good. Of course, as long as you're denied, you will be focusing on this. After all, just because I promise to abide by your orgasm rules doesn't mean you don't need to serve my needs in the interim. Good behavior is a requirement for orgasms, and if you want to edge or pleasure yourself in the interim, you must first be certain my needs are being met and that I have properly dismissed you.
Though you're welcome to edge now while we talk.