Order him to kneel by the bed!
From now on, when you say "MISTRESS SAYS", His immediate response should be; "AND I OBEY".
Tell him to touch himself, to get hard.
Try out your new power. Order him around. Do as little or as much as you prefer today!
- insert buttplug
- Give himself a spank
- pinch his own nipple
- order him close his eyes
- to smack his own face'
- to lube his ass.
- to ride a toy
- put on blindfold
Give it a few minutes and be strong, confident, dominant.
He will OBEY!
Throughout the tease you will pleasure yourself as you wish, and order him to join if you please. But make sure it's not just a sex act. The point is his prolonged denial.