Now, hold his cock at its base and use your tongue to give him several slow licks up the shaft of his penis to the tip of the head, always in an upward direction. Alternate between using the flat part of your tongue and the very tip. Tell him,
“I used to think that that the whole point of oral sex was to make a man cum, but now I know that it’s much better just to use it to get him all stiff and straining. Do you think you could reach an orgasm only from my little licks? I don’t think so. I think you’re just going to have to be very patient and let me have some fun with my mouth.”