Once you have changed into your sexy outfit, stroll back to the bed and sit by his side. Ask him if he thinks you look nice in your fancy lingerie (he will definitely say yes). Tell him that you’re so happy that he likes what he sees; maybe, if he’s a good boy, you’ll show him some more of your body later. But first, you need to give him some important information. He must remember that his safeword is “Red.” If he’s ever in pain or any other kind of distress and he needs to be released from his restraints, all he has to do is say “Red,” and you will immediately untie him. However, if he uses his safeword, he needs to know that the tease will end right there and will not continue in any fashion. So, he can’t cheat and use the safeword just because he’s frustrated and wants you to finish him off. He can beg and plead all he wants, but unless he brings your fun to an abrupt halt with his safeword, you’re going to continue to the end of the tease, no matter how exasperated he might become. Do not continue until he says that he understands.