Dominating your Man: An Introduction
Now that he's gone...
For this tease, you may need:
Restraints
lube
hitachi vibrator
clothespins
long string
ball gag
blindfold
chastity device
medium plug
larger plug
If you don't have something on this list, feel free to substitute or modify. These are only suggested items.
Now, Femdom, for me, is a way of letting a guy push his limits and explore sexual stimulation that he would not introduce on his own. He might be curious already, or even dream about it, but to admit it is another step. This is why I introduced femdom in my own relationship. I wanted to blur the line between agony and pleasure, using each one to enhance the other.
Your role tonight is a strict, commanding mistress. She is to let her darkest sexual urges come out. Her desire is to humiliate and toy with the object that is her man. She is to have no hesitations or shame, no act too kinky for her deprived mind...
To succeed in this role, you will have to make him do things he is afraid to do in front of you. After all, to push him to his limits, you first have to find them. But in doing so you are giving him an experience he will not forget, and trust me: You will both be rewarded!
To this end, you should always have a safeword when playing. Don't focus on what you think he wouldn't want you to do to him; the whole point of this is to act on your urges, not his! Just remember, if he doesn't say that word, then he doesn't really want you to stop. And if he doesn't really want you to stop, then you haven't really pushed his sexual boundaries...
This tease contains a scenario for you to use as “inspiration” to help you get into your role as a dirty, slutty, cum-craving bitch, whose pleasure comes from seeing her subject writhing in sweet agony. It is helpful to have it open throughout the scenario. Feel free to follow it exactly, or modify it to fit your own tastes. A twisted mind like yours shouldn't have any problems expanding on it.
But first, you will need to get acquainted with a few practices...