Femdom step by step
Not long to go now. It's just important that you know the background for the scenario, so that you understand why you have to let him go through it, even though you just want to let him off a little easy...
Spanking first- When spanking, be repetative and rough.. He should never know when it's finished, and the last one should be "left there" (dont rub it off...) Spank him often, with your palm you can spank him all night. Dont go for power, but for repetition.. If you use tools start milder and work your way up. Recomandation: his own belt when behaving bad, hurts like hell...
Anal - to anally stimulate him is an impotant part of femdom. Both for the actual stimulation, which can be intensly pleasurable for a man, but also for the "switch" he is now the one beeing penetrated. Start slow, and don't go for size. It will take a lot off time to get there, and you may lose momentum... Use small/ medium sized in the start. Vibrating toys will get him to the edge fast.
Strap- on - Used mostly for the psycological aspect. Not the best way to stimulate him analy, but is important in certain aspects of the "archetype switch". Try different positions. Doggystyle is an obvious choice, but there more fun to explore here. Recomendation (reverse his favourite positions or let him ride you for once).
Sucking a strap on is also a very effective psychological stimulation. This establishes him at the bottom and you at the top. However, when first introducing this, "force him into it". This is something he might have big issues with, and is close to the humiliation part. I do not use this to humiliate, but to dominate!! I can't stress this enough!
Cumplay, and cum-eating and swallowing- Think about it. He has been shooting his load so many times, he loves getting it in your face, on your tits, on your ass. He wants you to swallow, to play with it, to beg for it! Don't tell me he isn't a little curious on the taste? The feel?
He has learned that cum is "icky" for him, but "yummi" for you? Give me a break, he needs to grow a pair and suck it up! LITTERALLY! ;)
It's an important part of the experience, and one you should force upon him. Don't let him off easy, take your time, and let him really enjoy it.
In one of the scenarios he could end up having to actively eating his own load, don't let him off, but remeber to reward him if he does! What's another load on your face after all :)