Femdom step by step
Then he should be occupied while you read.
Femdom, for me, is a way of letting a guy push his limits and explore sexual stimulation that he would not introduce on his own. He might be curious already, and dream of being spanked, but to admit it is another step. This is why I introduced Femdom in my own relationship. I wanted to please him, and see him in agonising pleasure, and mental "pain". The line between kink and shame is not always far..
There is no "shame" in this tease, I take no pleasure in seeing my man humiliated or shamefull. We are not into crossdressing, feminization, ageplay, urine/scat, etc. I do not spank or clamp to injure, but to create a "scene" or stimulate.
I do not devalute those who are, but its not for us.
I never bring actual negative feelings into the bedroom, if you're in a fight, it's not the right time to play!