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Grab his hair and pull his head from the floor. Place a dildo on the floor in front of him (suction cup is best) and tell him he will now have his first real spanking!
His actions will determine how it goes. If he gives "good head" the spanking will be easier, if he hesitates or slows down you will intensify the pain.
(keep at this a minute or two) Be harsh, make "blowing" the dildo the only "rational" choice.
Sit him back up (on his feet, but crouching).
Lube your finger and run it over his asscrack. Tell him "Do you understand who's in charge now?"
Push one finger slowly into him. Grab his cock and jerk it.
Say "You really like this dont you?"
Play with him for a minute before you stand up and get the buttplug. Tell him to put it in while you watch.
While he does, tell him how horny it makes you feel. turn on the vibrator and pleasure yourself.
(if your close enough to have an orgasm, you should tell him to repeat untill you come)