Dildo:
Slowly start fucking yourself with your dildo. Moan softly once you feel comfortable and speed up. Do this for about 30 seconds.
Fingers:
Put in one finger and rub around, before removing it. Put in your finger again as deep as you want, and finger yourself for 30 seconds.
Other:
Start stroking yourself slowly with your free hand while humping and repeat 5 times: "I want to have a beautiful cock inside me please."