And you know I love it when you call me Mistress, and when I make you call the boys I bring home Master. You've spent a night or two in a closet listening to me scream "fuck me Daddy" over and over again. But when we're negotiating scenes with other folks, I want you to be a good little boy and not assume that kind of relationship exists with them yet.
Likewise, they're not gonna like it if you grovel and act like a sissy without negotiating it out first. We should treat people as equals first, so that we can know what kind of roles they'd most like to play with us.