Dabbling with domination
When your man texts you ask him if he has obeyed. If he says yes tell him you want to see for yourself and that you're coming home. Tell him he must be waiting for you on his hands and knees blindfolded with his hands cuffed behind his back for when you arrive. When you see him act shocked and tell him you can't believe you're dating such a pussy. Tell him this was a test to see how manly he was. Tell him he failed and that a real man would never do these things. Keep verbally degrading him. Make fun of his tiny cock locked up in the cage and the plug stretching his ass. Tell him you're training him for something bigger and more "manly" implying another man may be involved at a later point in time and that he should get used to wearing women's clothes.