And then I put my collar and leash on, my butt-plug in, I grab my dildo, my magic wand, and my clit stimulating gel and then I look for a place to leash myself.
You'll need to mount your dildo somewhere that will allow you to leash yourself close by.
Leash yourself so when your dildo is fully inserted there is little wiggle room for you. This way each stroke will pull against your collar and choke you, just like he was choking me.
Also, I like to tie or tape my magic wand around my belly with the bulb against my clit, and right before I start I put a bead of gel on my clit as well. I'm sure you'll get the full effect of being dominated by a man all on your own! Make sure you clean up his cock before you finish too! You know housewives don't get away with leaving anything dirty!
Here, I have an idea, you have at least a suction dildo and vibe right?
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