So you want to meet a Domme, huh?
There are not that many Dommes.
The pecking order goes a bit like this - at the top of the heap are female submissives. They are rare, delightful creatures, few and far between. Next down come Dommes. You don't tend to get an awful lot of those either. Next in the order are Doms. There are quite a lot of us, believe me. Finally we get to the largest group of all, the male submissive.
Consequently, don't treat all Dommes as the same. If you've read this far, you may be a tad pissed off with me for calling you a male submissive. Just think how much more annoying it is for a Domme to exist in your mind as nothing more than a woman who may want a submissive. You are denying her everything about her, except her sex and the fact that she can tell you what to do. Believe me, this is a really bad idea - the level of interest in you will be zero. If it's not zero it's almost certainly because she thinks you're a joke. (Of course, it's entirely possible that's what you get off on, but we'll assume that you do actually want a Domme for all the right reasons, ok?)