But visit it as a PERSON. Do not visit as a male submissive desperate for a Domme. We'll just get totally pissed off with you. However, if you are interesting and a fun person to chat to, you'll be warmly welcomed. Do this for long enough, and at some point a Domme will turn her eye towards you. (Probably both eyes in fact. If she does just turn one eye towards you, be slightly worried).
And when you visit, come to the chatroom to meet people. Don't come with the express requirement to meet the Domme of your dreams. She probably doesn't exist, and if she does, she's the one who is married to me, ok? Treat all of us Dommes, Doms, submissives just like normal real life people because you know what? That's exactly what we are. No-one likes being put in a pigeon hole. You don't like me thinking of you as 'just another male submissive', and quite frankly, I don't blame you. If you don't like it, why would we want to be pigeon holed either?