I'm glad you decided to begin your journey honey. It will be a long tough road but if you do everything I say and embrace the new you we'll be creating, you'll be much happier in the end.
First things first. You will need shaving cream and a lady's razor. Don't get the cheap stuff. Trust me, cheap razors give you lots of razor burn. Splurge a little and get a few of the more expensive razors. If you already have these things, you can move on. If you don't, go out and get them ASAP then come back and continue.
If you have your cream and razor, I want you to take a shower or bath and shave your entire body. I mean everywhere you have hair with the exception of your head. That means, your legs, arms, under arms, and torso. Get your whole body silky smooth. You'll need to keep it this way from now on. NO EXCEPTIONS. Depending on how fast your hair grows, you'll have to shave at least every other day. Get into a ritual with it. Being pretty and feminine takes a lot of work and in your case, it won't be easy. Women have the life experience of these things. You'll be learning to catch up and get to their level in time. Gone are the days of lazy man grooming. You have work to do honey. Don't disappoint me.
When you're completely shaved smooth, you can continue.