Become a Sissy For Real

Become a Sissy For Real by Kailakane

Now that you're well on your way to being the sissy you really are inside, it's time to start building a circle of support. Every sissy needs a support circle. It's very important. It will make the rest of your life much, much easier. Trust me.

The best way to do this is to pick out certain friends or family members that you can trust with very sensitive information. Some of you will already have friends in "the know". Some of you will still be deep in the closet. For me, I kept the real me hidden for many years because I was terrified of what people would think of me. I kept putting my transition off further and further and that only prolongs the inevitable.

I want you to pick out a few friends that you can trust. In many cases, girls are much more accepting of these things so I'd start there. If you don't have any girl's you can trust, pick out a guy or two. Write out everything you're going to say to them either on your computer or in long hand. It will make it a lot easier to have something ready. The last thing you need is to be at a loss for words when trying to explain things to them.

Most people today are supportive of the gay/les/bi/transgender community. I know some parts of the world are less so. Some MUCH less so. Be sure you choose wisely who you're telling. I know many of you will still be scared to do this but I assure you, it's a step YOU HAVE TO TAKE. It won't be easy but you can do it. Don't chicken out on me now. You've come a long way and it's time.

I personally was shocked with my friend's reactions. I really thought they would be weirded out with it but they just weren't. Not only were they supportive, but they actually wanted to help me in any way they could. If you chose wisely, you'll get the same reaction I'm sure.

Make sure you tell them to keep it very private for now until you feel you're ready for more people to know.

THIS STEP IS VERY IMPORTANT! I don't want you to continue until you have at least two friends in "the know". More would be better but two will be fine for now.

Once you have your circle of support started, you can continue. If you feel you can't do this, stop now and move on to something else. Everything else will require being the REAL YOU outside of your private comfort zone.