After he returns to the bedroom and is standing at attention - in both ways - he gives me a glorious massage, telling me all thing wonderful things he would like to do to me (with my permission, of course!) and how much he loves my mind and my body.
I ask him to bring me to my climax. After he snuggles with me - with his wonderfully hard cock between my legs pulsing against my yoni (sometimes I ask him to flex his cock so I can feel it pulse against me).
When I am ready, I then ask him to get on his back and not move while I tease him with my hands, tongue and breasts. I bring him to the edge at least once, but hopefully twice.