Blackmail Play - The Sequel
It is important to list your blackmail goals: an OK-list for your blackmailer to use on you, giving you missions and dares to perform. There can be millions of reasons to be blackmailed for and you are the only one knowing your goals, so write it or them down and see if you find a blackmailer that wants to work with you and them.
You want the OK-list to contain at least 10 things you know you can do, but have not done before due to some reasons (shyness, laziness, not enough willpower) but now you have a very strong reason to do it/them! We cannot call the OK-list for a like list, because you cannot be blackmailed to do something you like! So, although there is no protesting, the missions or dares on the OK-list will not be what you like to do most.
For example, there can be a mission to changing your weight on the OK-list, if you don't like to do this of course, but you might love the result of the mission! Or performing something scary, something which will make you feel better when you managed to do it, but something you would never have done if not being forced to.