An Instructional Tease: Anal for Beginners
Now, I want you to repeat this tease every time you shower. Watch some porn, get turned on, shower, and touch yourself. Not very complicated, is it?
In order to make sure you don't suddenly find anything you weren't expecting as you go further, make sure you try to use the toilet beforehand. You may have seen stuff about enemas or other cleaning rituals. All you really need is to make sure you naturally empty yourself, no need for equipment or anything! All that is just extra, or if you're really paranoid, and since you're in the shower anyway, you should stay clean the whole time!
Continue this for about a week, but each time you shower, I want you to spend a bit more time masturbating beforehand than the previous time, and get a bit more adventurous in your fingering. If you have body wash, or lotion, or even if you have lube you can use, bring it with you into the shower and put some on your finger. If it's something that will wash away in the shower, you can step out for a moment, or do it after you're done, but take that finger, and slowly feel around deeper inside you. Each shower, go a little bit further. Your first shower or two, you'll just be feeling the outside, but it should start to feel natural to go in a bit further. By the time the week is over, try to get as far as your first knuckle in. Feel around in there. Take your time. If it starts to feel strange in a bad way, pull out, and just do it again the next time you shower.
For guys, anal tends to feel good on its own. For women, however, some positive associations may be necessary, depending on the person. For men, I might suggest a bit of stroking to get those positive associations, but for women I'd highly advise it.
The only way to learn to like it is to keep doing it regularly. If you ever forget, or wimp out, you're not allowed to cum until you pick up where you left off: inserting just a tiny bit more than last time, feeling around just a bit more. Each time you fail, you must make up that time with one more shower. This is to learn to enjoy anal, so no skimping out!
Bookmark this page, then come back in a week of successful anal fingering and continue on to the next stage.