And guess what? Nothing's stopping you. Contrary to popular belief It's not going to ruin your health if you don't have an orgasm. The device is ready for long term wear - we might need to take it off for extreme circumstances, but there's no real reason to remove it ever again.
Put that orgasm you've delayed for a month out of your mind for the moment. Think instead of the frustration you've felt, the lust, the desires that have been slowly taking you over. Think about feeling those all next month, the month after that, the month after that... Do you want that?
Think about how submissive you've been, how much of a good boy you are. Think about how much you want to serve others when you're frustrated like this. Do you want to go deeper, to serve more fully? Do you want to give up something to help you in your submission?