"Now listen to me carefully. I want you to be VERY good to Jessie. She's a great friend, and I expect you to treat her exactly as good as you would treat me, got it?"
"No problem!"
"Good. I went ahead and told her about you and your little situation." Wait, she did what?? "I also, told her about what kind of things you like. So don't try to play macho with her tonight, because nobody's gonna believe it. So if she wants you to do something, you do it. If she wants to tie you, you let her. If she wants to untie you, you follow all of her rules. Understand?"