Now open a picture of your ex-girlfriend and also tell it to her. But before you say the following to her, look her in the eyes and rip off the nipple clamps and leave them off.
"I am sorry for not being able to give you the orgasms you deserved. You did the right thing when leaving me for <new bf's name>."
repeat 3 times / one stroke per word
This time give her an edge after the 3rd repetition!!