bate coach - One who works with masturbators, either one on one or in a group, to encourage the masturbator to greatness. An experienced ‘bate coach knows when to be demanding and when to be understanding. Through various verbal techniques and visual stimuli the ‘bate coach’s goal it to keep the masturbator engaged in stroking, gooning, and edging for as long as possible. They may occasionally allow the masturbator to cum as a reward, but the goal is to go longer and longer between cumming.