"I want you to imagine that its me with my lubed up finger rubbing all over the entrance to your ass. I am rubbing 100 times and trying hard to get you off only by rubbing your ass. Flex your PC muscle while I rub your man clit, try to edge for me by focusing on the intense pleasure that this is bringing you"
"Once your clit has been rubbed 100 times I want you to grab that cock and stroke it until you reach the edge."
"Now rest for me."
"Grab your first toy (small dildo, buttplug or whatever you found). I want you to open a condom and cover the object up. Take some lube and make sure it is nice and wet....glistening in the light."
"Take your lubbed up and and give your ass a nice fresh coating of lube"