I'll tell you what: I want you to let those mean hands put a thought into your head. Specifically: the number of minutes you should keep your eyes closed while your hands show me a grand finale of every technique they'd ever want me to know. Maybe 5? 10? 30? 60? It's up to those hands, not you. Now, make sure those hands get that lube even with your eyes closed, then close your eyes and suffer for my entertainment. Just make sure your time is up before you open your eyes, or you'll have to try all over again.