She laughs again and says:
"Does spilling your seed mean just getting it on the ground when you masturbate, or does it refer to your ejaculation?"
You say it must be just about masturbation, since you are allowed to ejaculate in a woman when you are married.
"But you can't do that unless you are married?" she says with a glint in her eye.
Yes, that's the dilemma, you say.
"Well," she laughs a bit, "I can think of at least 2 ways to solve that problem!"
What? you ask anxiously.