So you tell Kayden that of course, you'd want her to be happy in a marriage, so you are willing to make love with her sometime before she decides if she can marry you.
"It's just that before I met you, my sexual habits were really..." she pauses, thinking,
"Well, let's just say they were 'unusual'..." she pauses again,
"Would you be willing to be patient with me and indulge me sometimes?"
Your cock twitches, as you know exactly what she is talking about. You nod your head and say you want to make her happy more than anything else, so of course you would be patient with her.