"You know," she says playfully, "one thing I love to talk about is a guy's hopes and desires, why don't you tell me what you hope for and desire? Is there anything you fantasize about?"
You realize that you are all alone with her, just as you would be in her apartment, but you know it's too soon for you to have this conversation with Kayden. So you stall for time and say that you would be embarrassed to discuss such things with her.