Most lip balms are clear which I'm sure is cause for a sigh of relief.
You see - we are not doing this shopping to try and humiliate you in public (however you could make it that way it you wanted to!).
I am doing this to educate you - showing you that you CAN go out in everyday life, facing society without any change to your normal appearance, but still feel like a complete sissy inside. Because that's the most important.