"That's right," Erica continues, "and then you keep pressing your advantage and make them feel even worse, by teasing them and using their sexual feelings against them. For example, next I would say something like:"
"'Has not being able to cum since we got married made it hard for you to control yourself around me and all these other sexy women?'"
Yes, you admit it has made it very hard. You desperately want to fuck Erica, who is presenting such a wonderful picture to you. But you know that's not in the cards right now, she's just teasing you!