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I couldn't have said it better myself! Thank you for saying that for me. It boils down to a sub just doing it, period. It's not rocket science, it's the spirit and willingness, (admission) to play according to the rules. Thanks for that! Executive Angel/Secretary

I'm guessing any participants would have to join your pay site?

PAY SITE? WOW< There's a thought..... Very wise idea

I absolutely adore the idea of a site! To be honest I'm almost too busy to be online with something else to monitor.

My teasing up to now, has been purely "personal" with kinks placed accordingly, and I find the funnest people in this type of environment.

I may or may not fit the perfect torment and teasing person, but it works for me, and on occasion a few others.

So when and if I can adjust scheduling, I will catch up with Alsionx, and get the lessons down pat.
For todays lesson, let's see, maybe it should be, "You get what you pay for! hahaha Enjoy your day, just tease the hell out of them when you can!

You should also have Your subbies include a newspaper with the date showing in the picture to make certain that they don't change the date on the camera.

Its amazing the ideas people cum up with when they are desperate.

I was never a fan of any things that combine sex and money. It's cool if you make some guys happy and they pay you for that. I would never pay, even for a real session It's a question of supply and demand. If there would be more dominant women and less submissive men in this world the dommes would have to pay. I would like that

I think it's great for you Alison. Easy money and you have fun with your toys. Life is expensive

Hey Angel you have your old name again? Did I misunderstand you?

Well I can only speak about myself and as you can see in my signature. I'm wearing a cb-3000 since august, 8th and my keyholder lives about 600km away from me. I'm locked with a real padlock. She has the keys (she sent me the padlock without the keys).

I dont think that a plastic lock will work for a longer duration. Maybe for a week or two but then the urge to have an orgasm will become to big and ppl will cut it and dont really care if the keyholder is angry afterwards. The plastic keylock is a good way for a beginner to "try it out".

For a longer duration I would always use a real padlock. First its more "real" for the wearer and second its much more secure.

You don't have a safety key? Isn't that a bit dangerous? I hope you have at least a safeword. I am curious, do you pay for that? If this question is too intimate just ignore it

And what is the thrill for you about? I mean if you never see your keyholder what you get from it. For me chastity is just a domination game it's not a fetish for me. I think I would get mad after one month Respect!

RoniDev wrote:Well I can only speak about myself and as you can see in my signature. I'm wearing a cb-3000 since august, 8th and my keyholder lives about 600km away from me. I'm locked with a real padlock.

What happens when you have to go through airport security?

Alison

alisonx wrote:

RoniDev wrote:Well I can only speak about myself and as you can see in my signature. I'm wearing a cb-3000 since august, 8th and my keyholder lives about 600km away from me. I'm locked with a real padlock.

What happens when you have to go through airport security?

Alison

I dont have to go through an airport security, but if I would have to, then I would visit her to get unlocked and wear a plastic lock for that time. But again I'm not in need to go through an airport security. Germany isnt that big.

Dark,you say that you would never pay for domination. Strange hearing that, since I live out of that, it is my sole income.

dark wrote:You don't have a safety key? Isn't that a bit dangerous? I hope you have at least a safeword. I am curious, do you pay for that? If this question is too intimate just ignore it

And what is the thrill for you about? I mean if you never see your keyholder what you get from it. For me chastity is just a domination game it's not a fetish for me. I think I would get mad after one month Respect!

Thats right I dont have a safety key and we also dont have a safeword. I know her very well and I know I can trust her. All I did was wearing my chastity cage for a week to find the right distance and rings etc. so it fits perfectly and to see if there is a problem when wearing it. The thing is if your chastity doesnt fit then you will notice that very soon. Etc. its very uncomfy to wear or if you have problems with a to "tight setting" and the blood will not flow back and stuff like that, etc. getting blue balls then you notice that very soon, mostly after the first night. So its really important to test your chastity cage. Wear it for a few days, try a different ring or a different distance spacer. So you can be sure that it is secure and that you dont get any health problems. After that a safe key is not needed imo, sure a lot ppl say to always have a safety key at home, but its not the first time I wear my cb-3000 and I never had problems so far with it. Also the maid had no saftey key when her king was on a crusade ;)

For me a safe key also kills the reason of a chastity cage. I know myself and if I would have a safe key then I would use it when I become to horny. But so I have no chance. Only she can release me and she also decides about the duration. I even allowed her to keep me chaste for a year or longer if she wants to.

Chastity is also some kind of fetish. I think its very similar to ppl who crave into cuckolding. Its about giving up your sexlife, to give someone full control over your "best friend" and to know that you just cannot jerk off anymore like you could before. The really strange thing is that not able to cum makes you even more horny and that means bigger need to cum and that means more horny again. Its really some kind of circle you are trapped into and its like hell and heaven together at the same time.

Its also sometimes very humiliating, when you sit at home or take a shower and you look down and you see that plastic cage between your legs and you know that normaly you could just use your hands and cum and now all you will touch is hard plastic. No chance and no begging or whining will help you. On the other side this gives your keyholder a huge amount of power over you. Cause you would do nearly everything to get the keys back.

Its like all other things. Some ppl like to get spanked and others dont really understand why ppl like that. Same goes with keyholding and stuff like that and yes its also about domination thing. I love if someone dominates me, I'm a submissive myself and by wearing a chastity cage I show her that I want to be owned by her and she can have full control over me, even over my sexlife.

Oh and forgot something something. No I dont pay for it. I gave her money so that she could buy a padlock and I also give her sometimes money for some worn socks etc. Cause I also crave into that kind of things ;) I have a huge foot fetish aswell. I have to say that she isnt a real domme, she is a very good friend of mine and one day I told her about my foot fetish and if she would sent me some socks and a few years later I asked her if she would like to keep a few keys for me for a while and she said yes and thats how it started. I know she enjoys it, to hear me begging for the keys and she more or less already has that much control over me that she basicly just has to snip with her fingers and I would do what ever she wants.

Thanks for this wonderful and particular answer I know I go crazy after a short period and for example at work I can only think about sex. How do you manage it that you don't get totally distracted from your other life?

And about the safety key: I meant for example if you need to go to a doctor or have an accident or something like that. There is a little risk. But on the other hand without risks the life would be boring.

I really wish you, to get release before Christmas

From my experience the first two weeks are the hardest, after that it gets easier with every day. Its not that I would have a chance, so you accept it and it may sound but you can concentrate much better on other things now as before.

Really I know that sounds crazy and its hard to believe but you begin to change yourself after some time, its like a transformation from mr. hyde into mr. jekel.

The strange thing is that I'm still horny like ... but if I could chose between my own orgasm or the orgasm of my keyholder. I would chose the latter thing.

HI Dark and Everyone: First to Dark-Correct note that my original Angel name is secured again.
As for the rest of the replies, I'm amased at the comments that are so varied.

I am an "unpaid Keyholder" by choice. I find it an extreme turn on and when the time comes for release, (especially after weeks of anticipation, and talking very naughty to each other) the description for cosmic eruptions when that cage comes off are unexplainably incredible!

AS for the airport secuirty, just use the plastic locks, and as Alison noted, making notes, with dated information works very well. I have had photos and info to show, just as I requested, just to make double sure of no cheating!

It's amazing the perfect color of purple I like to see on his balls after a few days in a cage, and he is more than willing to be totally accomodating when we get to that color descriptive point! So far there has been no anger management, slight torment maybe, but knowing that little *giggle* from me of "I'm so sorry, will be worth it in the end!" seems to suffice.

I have the only sets of keys. If I feel I need to trust someone another way, I will send a new lock and again, keep the keys. It's a simple process and as people mentioned before me, is trust and fun and everything all rolled up into a big Ball of Fun wating to explode! It keeps my mind sharp and my imagination even sharper! Different Strokes for different folks, (Scuze the pun). Enjoy your day and dream those naughty thoughts! Angel/Secretary