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Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 3:52 am
by plissk3n
Good bye Milovanians, especially the CH community and of course all the webtease authors.
It was a great time with you and the work you do here is amazing!
But I've came to the conclusion, that I am addicted to it and that my porn consumption does have negative influence on my social life.
So I decided to erase all the stuff on my HDD's, delete all bookmarks and also leave milovana. I know that milovana is a great discussion board but I have to quit the hard way, otherwise I can't move on. Also isn't this one of the biggest ideas of this community, not to fap? :-P

Thanks for the good times.
Wish you all the best! plissk3n :wave:

PS: if you are interested why I am doing this I recommend you this two links:The Great Porn Experiment: Gary Wilson at TED
Reddits NoFap Subreddit

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 9:37 am
by Evals
Hmm... Fuck it, I'll give this a shot. I wouldn't consider myself addicted to masturbation by any means, but I'm interested in the effect this this might have on me regardless. Living in a dorm makes it difficult to find privacy for masturbating anyways.

So adios, amigos, I'm joining plissk3n.

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Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:24 am
by Pontos
as always: The dose makes the poison.

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:40 am
by les


I hope things work out for you.
It's always a bummer when the fun gets out of hand.

Take care.

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:57 am
by green
Have fun approaching some real girls folks :-)

The Video was kinda interesting, I'm not an porn addict. I'd rather consider myself ultra kinky and want to find out new ideas to experience new sensations and feelings, but I can understand those who are really addicted and are wanting it to stop, wanting to experience reality, escaping from virtuality.

Good luck guys :D

~green

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 12:19 pm
by SexualChoc
Does it eat into your real life
so much it causes problems?
is it negatively impacting relationships?
is it hurting your job?

if the answer is yes to either of these questions
then it is a good idea to take a break
or even leave permanently

balance in all things

we wish you the best and bear you no ill will :beer2: :console:

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 3:23 am
by Human
I will miss you plissk3n :weep:

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2012 8:31 pm
by S776
Good luck plissk3n :)

So I've checked out his links, read a little about porn addiction and asked my self the question:
"Am I addicted to porn?".

Now I do check out 4chan's /d/ several times everyday, and sometimes see if there is anything good on imagefap... but I don't masturbate to it, nor do I perceive it to be a problem of any sort in my life.

I joined Milovana a couple of days ago after discovering how fun the teases are
(I'm trying to do the "Stroke for me" series by chewit).
And I'm just confused if this is a healthy activity or not.

Any thoughts?

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2012 4:38 pm
by Xaphran
S776 wrote:Good luck plissk3n :)

So I've checked out his links, read a little about porn addiction and asked my self the question:
"Am I addicted to porn?".

Now I do check out 4chan's /d/ several times everyday, and sometimes see if there is anything good on imagefap... but I don't masturbate to it, nor do I perceive it to be a problem of any sort in my life.

I joined Milovana a couple of days ago after discovering how fun the teases are
(I'm trying to do the "Stroke for me" series by chewit).
And I'm just confused if this is a healthy activity or not.

Any thoughts?
Anything, if done to excess/extremes, can be unhealthy.

If you drink too much water, too fast, you can literally die from it.

But that doesn't mean you shouldn't drink water at normal amounts.

Re: Goodbye boys and girls!

Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2012 5:34 pm
by janmb
I've given this topic a thought now and then myself, and as others have stated, too much of anything is usually bad - even too much real sex can be physically damaging and therefore unhealthy.

As with anything, the main thing is to watch yourself from an outside perspective now and then and ask yourself if what you are choosing to spend your time on hurts other aspects of your life. Pretty much anything can be found guilty of just that - including pruning flowers in the garden.

There's definitely nothing wrong with enjoying porn or what this site offers, including the community, as long as it doesn't replace other social activities completely.