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I'd like to try some spanking and stuff with my gf. The thing is i came up with two ways to make it more interesting and can't quite decide which one to implement. She had no stimulation for over a week now, and she won't be allowed release for another one, though i intend to have a LOT of fun with her during our extended weekend. Besides denial, she's very vanilla though and we've only tried very little of both anal and pain.
Basically, i intend to have her on all fours, stick a finger in her pussy and have her clench PC muscles, hitting her ass lightly everytime she releases them.
Another option is doing the same but with finger in her ass,
and another is sort of reverse - slowly fingerfucking her ass, and conversely punishing her for clenching.

The question is: Which one do you think she'd enjoy the most?

Go for the finger in her pussy to begin with, then move onto slowly fucking her.

First be EXTREMELY careful!!!
do you want to see your girlfriend again??
or keep her as a girlfriend

I mean fantasies are all nice and fun.. but you have to REALLY be sure the
Yes I want to try that out is.. a Yes

second How sexual IS she??
some women go without orgasms for months.. even years
because they are taught it is "bad"

I have had these kind of ideas work great.. and other time go horribly wrong.

now that being said, This is a great idea
yo will need her in a "doggie" position on a bed would be awesome make sure you keep her Legs APART!! this makes clenching More difficult, also a bed is nice and soft on knees and hands but this actually makes it also a tad more difficult to clench
you really need to use Just your PC muscles.
also I would use TWO fingers to Start
and then go down to One also I would recommend Only one Or two spanks for NOT clenching

remember it is easier to clench on slightly larger things like a dick or two fingers than just one
next and what I think may be MOST important set a time frame to do this in
say.. One hour I would NOT recommend much longer than that!
!Two hours would definitively be maximum
set an alarm on a clock or phone to ring for yourself

after your time is up.. snuggle even talk.. if she wants to.. you can do a second session but better to start small and work to longer ones later..

the reason I say this
is that frustration can wear a persons emotions down
it is Fun while there are doing it
but if they are not used to it..
well I have an ex-wife she is an ex because things.. went a bit to far for her..
so balance your relationship and understanding of any history of abuse in her past
If she has ever been a bused as a child.. you can cause really bad memories to surface
and thing can go Horribly wrong

learn from my mistakes.

Well, it's not like it's going to be some bad 90's German porn... Just a little kinky foreplay, and i wouldn't do it if i didn't think she'll love it...

As for denial and frustration, two weeks is what i promised her, it will be her longest time so far, and i'm pretty determined to give her at least one O at the end of the weekend anyways (they are rather spectacular to watch).

That being said, i'm not sure about the "more inside = better" thing, as i want it only to tease her. As for time frame, i don't think i'll be able to resist that for very long

In relationship, i insist on power exchange to be a sex thing and sex thing only, and even then she has the same amount of power over me when it's time to turn the table. Other than that i take care to treat her as equal (well, more like my daughter, but that's another matter)

/ramble on
Actually this period of denial was originally a kind of bet. We would have our usual evening together, watching some movie, talking, sharing fantasies, cuddling, more or less naked. We would try our best to turn each other on and have them give up and make the move. The first one to suggest sex or touch any erotogenous zone has no release the whole sexy weekend and no touch until the next one, so we would just lay there, ache for each other, unable to do anything... You get the picture.

Later we were talking and it came to me asking her, if i told her do fail on purpose, if she'd do it, and she said she would. So i told her to, so she cannot claim her orgasmic price, but we agreed that the bet is still on, so if she can last longer in our predicament, i still get to suffer along with her.

The whole spanking/clenching thing would then be excepted from the bet and done in a mutually agreed time frame. (she has no idea about the clenching though)

Sett wrote:Well, it's not like it's going to be some bad 90's German porn... Just a little kinky foreplay, and i wouldn't do it if i didn't think she'll love it...

The whole spanking/clenching thing would then be excepted from the bet and done in a mutually agreed time frame. (she has no idea about the clenching though)

No problem
just ..
needed to share.. I guess.
enjoy!!


still stick by recommendations on keeping legs spread and her on bed
this will make it very interesting