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After a long stroking and edging build-up, which would result in more horniness/deprivation than the other? Repeatedly denied any orgasm, or repeatedly ruining orgasms?

Bandit224 wrote:After a long stroking and edging build-up, which would result in more horniness/deprivation than the other? Repeatedly denied any orgasm, or repeatedly ruining orgasms?

I don't think this is a very good question, because "horniness" and "deprivation" are two different beasts.

I really enjoy denial, because it makes me hornier. I don't feel deprived because the pleasure of an orgasm can still happen at any time in the future; I find the anticipation itself enjoyable.

Ruined orgasms I don't enjoy at all because I simply feel deprived. The pleasure of the orgasm was thrown away and it might a minimum of two or three days before I can experience such a pleasure again. No fun.

For me:

orgasm denial = horniness + pleasure = great!
orgasm = pleasure - horniness = good
stimulation denial = horniness - pleasure = still nice
ruined = no horniness, no pleasure = bad

Well, actually the urge returns quite fast after ruined, and it's interestingly different from your usual horniness. Less horny, more needy. I'm still pretty "tired" after ruined though.