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I've always been in vanilla relationships so never had the chance to explore my sub side but for the past couple of weeks I've been self exploring and trying to give myself blue balls.

Been doing lots of webteases, lots of stroking and edging, have had a couple of ruined orgasms when i was trying to push myself a bit too close to the edge, but up to this morning not much was really happening. Was thinking of posting on here for some advice on whether they were really possible.

But then i thought i'd try one last thing, repetitive edging through the day (rather than lots followed after each other) so 2 edges every hour and by early afternoon the aching feeling was telling me blue balls were possible, and by late afternoon they were throbbing! Eased off a little again now (been busy tonight so not had chance to keep up) but aiming to give a little top up before i go to bed, and then see how hard it is to get to sleep!

Oh they are real for sure.... The story of my life since my wife and I started exploring my chastity fetish. lol

I think it's harder to give yourself blue balls when you're trying to get them but another thing you can try if your good at riding the edge and want to get them faster is to ride the edge for as long as you can. Then after you've had a scare or two stop for a few minuets and massage your balls. Then rinse and repeat.

You should have a pretty nasty case after an hour or two.

They are way worse when a partner gives them to you. It must be a mental thing but my wife gives me the worst blue balls ever with very little effort it seems. She normally has me on the edge the whole time I'm going down on her and she has a way of keeping me much closer to the edge than I can get myself without going over.

there actually kinda of 2 different definitions for blue balls

One is a physical ache..

the other more... mental

mental one is usually just denial or long periods of denial
where you feel super horny and can feel anytime your balls roll or move
it seems like, your hyper sensitive.

the physical one usually is from intense stimulation and denial
and is a painful sensation
sometimes a burning feeling or throbbing pain
rarely a sharp pain (if you get the sharp pain stop asap, and check yourself, just to be safe)

this can also hapen from bouncing (lightly) or vibrating balls.

it is no where near the intense feeling of being kicked in balls
and the physical pain usually slowly fades away

the best way to avoid this
is good hydration.

the best way to get it... is lots of stimulation to balls (like vibe) without cumming
(and low or no pain) bouncing, jiggling works.. especially with a little bit of edging.

They are definitely possible, everyone just has a different threshold.

thanks for responses!

bit disappointed actually, aching disappered over night and then tried like mad on friday but couldn't recreate! Going to have another go this week.

Wouldn't it depend on the type of stimulation as well? Blue balls from masturbation is one thing, but I'd think it'd be more intense or maybe easier to get if your body thought it was going to cum due to actual penetration but as denied.

I think it varies from person to person how much you "get" it. o.o

I don't.

I have experienced it mentally "lol" but have never really physically.

Why ask, why not experiment??

Go on am sure you would have soooooo much fun.....

Snoopy x