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Hi, bit of a noob, really love the website though, I'm very much in the shallow end of exploration and would appreciate insights/discussions for something I've been thinking about.....

Personally, although I ejaculate after a quick wank, I never feel as satisfied or pleased if I've not edged or built up to an orgasm. So, opening it up for views/chat.....Is it possible for a man to have a quick orgasm that is as satsifying as building up with teasing and stroking or is it a personal thing?

Thanks in advance for any responses.

do Men need foreplay?

is another way to say the same question

and also what do you mean by "satisfying"


I believe this is partly an age related question
the younger you are
ANY orgasm is fun and exciting.
the older you get the more you enjoy the experience prior to

the hugging and touching before sex
the slow build up with self play

yet another factor is the length of denial after several weeks without an orgasm a "quicky" might very well be some welcomed relief

So there a lot of shades of gray here.
but I hope this helps you think about things a bit.

thanks for the reply and appreciate your comments.....I think satisfying for me is defined by how long you feel satiated for after ejaculation. After a quick orgasm, satisfied for maybe a minute or so, after foreplay, edging etc I feel satsified for much longer. I'm 34 so I would like to think I'm neither young or old, coming into my prime

for me a quick orgasm is less satisfying than a good well-built one.

I've had very satisfying quick orgasms. Usually it directly relates to the intensity of the experience. Either the mental or physical(or both) experience has to be unusually intense. Personally I find that strong vibrations are the most reliable method, but there is still no guarantee. Just keep experimenting to see what works for you.