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I've been a lurker here for ages and.have always had a chastity fetish. I've finally got up the nerve to ask my wife to take control by writing her a letter to explain why I want chastity and how I think it will be good for us. The thing is I'm alittle worried she will take to it more than I truly want her to.

It's difficult to explain but when I'm aroused or haven't hand an orgasm in a few days I get so excited about the thought of her keeping me locked up in long term chastity that I want to beg her to lock me up and never let me out. She is so good at teasing me and I love it. The thing is other times I'm not interested in being locked up at all and the thought of being locked up for a long amount of time is frightening. This happens particularly after I've had an orgasm.

I'm hoping to get some feedback from couples that have practiced long term chastity and get an idea for how much the guy really enjoys being locked up and teased all the time after he hasn't had an orgasm in say 6 months plus.

Thanks for any advice.

Well I have never gone 6 months

but I am married and get daily teases
so far am going a little over 2 weeks

first off be sure to have VERY good communication with your partner/spouce
long term chastity can cause mood swings
at least it did for me..
and have heard others with the same problem

remember your Relationship is FIRST ! !! !!! fantasy should always take a back seat to keeping your parnter happy

next I assume you have a belt or device
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/#author=13378
the above author is number one the best for chastity teases to be done with a partner
with good suggestions on how to... in each tease!

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I think that there really are people, couples to be exact, who practice such a thing. And though there are a lot of things that are to be considered before you can fully make it work, there just are things that you have to avoid in order not to full on the pit with doing something that you have vowed to stop for the mean time. Just one of the stronger risks when talking about chastity, if you ask me.

Thanks for all the advice!

Giving her a letter worked great for us. I'm not the best at putting my feelings into words so I made a special event out of it to show her I was serious about it and that I wanted her to be too. I had a lemo pick us up and take us to a fancy restaurant and then to an stupidly expensive hotel. I think the last time we did something this extravagant was for our wedding. It worked very well. She was surprised a super excited.

In the letter I explained why I liked the idea of long term chastity and why I thought she would like it and then wrote her an erotic story that described what one of our sexual encounters would be like with me not being able to orgasm. It was a long letter that pretty much said everything that I think I know about it plus some stuff about loving making and holding back during intercourse.

One cool thing I did was that on page 2 when she got to the erotic story I "helped" her enjoy it more than should would have by just reading it. Then after we talked about it a lot.

I'm pretty sure I got exactly what I asked for but we are going to take it slowly and experiment until we find out what works best for us. The letter was such a huge success that I'm wondering if I should have been more careful about what I wished for.

Also it's probably important to point out that this all happened on the same day as our anniversary so she totally didn't even notice how I went all out on this push for chastity. Crazy girl thought I remembered when our anniversary was.

Kidding, I actually planned it for our anniversary and it went great.