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If you Play....read this before

Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 4:19 pm
by LadySassa07
I do in person sessions for an elite few....I have done phone for years...One of my girls was a phone client of mine for many years very special to me even though our relationship was business as well....I am very close to my girls I see each one as one of my Picasso's.


Andrea and I talked for 8 yrs before moving to within an hour of her so we started doing our sessions in person...Basically what she needed from me was to shine a light onto the ways of being a woman....

I ask all of my girls to tell me if no one else when they are meeting someone especially if meeting them on a social network...ie...craigs list,backpage,plenty of fish...and also to give me the information so SOMEONE knows where they are and who they are meeting....

Andrea did none of this and on a whim met a man in a hotel..over a month ago..Andrea like some has a big time slut fetish so it is a turn on for her to be "paid"....I do not want anyone bashing her for this.... there is nothing illegal or immoral about charging for your time....be upfront and if both agree this is fair I see no issue with it....it is expensive to buy toys and so forth....for many dominas like myself we do this full time...my sessions are no more than you would spend taking a woman out to dinner and a movie these days...

Andrea met a man in a hotel and did not ask for her money upfront ( trivial amount really $100) He not only did not pay her but tied her up and beat her and took her in a very not nice way...Andrea is not into this kind of thing...When he was done he told her to "call the police,He said he would say it was consistentual"

Andrea called me after crying and I tried to get her to go get checked or call the police and she told me they would not take her serious because she was a CD...

I have had this happen to my girls many times and this is one reason I am so fanatical about knowing where my girls are playing....

Fate has brought this same man knocking on my door for a DS session next week....I could hardly contain myself while I was setting the appointment. I assure you I will be ready for his ass...When I went over my typical questionnaire I asked if he was into fem play or anything in that area....no he had never done anything such as that he insisted.....Ha...

I am sure this guy is one and the same I made him Cam verify with her at my house...

I am not scared of this jerk off....he may get one over on my sweet little inexperienced sissy ( this was her first sex with a man) but I am a very experienced mad Mama Bear....

He has no clue that I know of his little deed.I am sure this was not the only time he has done this.He has asked to be bound....so I will take care of this request right off .....

I am going to call Andrea in at that time and let him tell me what he did and then Andrea and I are going to have a little fun...I will give Andrea the money from the session as well.. YOU DO NOT MESS WITH MY GIRLS!!!!!

The reason I am sharing this is please please always tell someone what you are doing...there are men out there that know you will not go to the police...

Many of you are in the closet for your own reasons and you just want to experience your fantasy's there is nothing wrong with this but play safe!!!!

It is best if someone local knows but if you must sneak off and meet someone in a room...find someone here and tell them what is going down where you are and who you are meeting....Always get them to take a picture with their drivers Lic so you know whom you are meeting....

I have talked to many all over the world for many years and as they share their experiences I find many have things like this happen especially when they are less experienced.You can be submissive and protect yourself..You can find others that want to play without putting yourself at risk...even if you are a sub....you have the right to protect yourself...being a sissy,CD,Trans what ever you want to call it....does not give someone the right to abuse you....

never have someone come to your home unless you have met them many times and feel safe....if you go to a hotel to meet them....stop at the desk.. tell them you are going to rm#XXXX and you want to make double sure you are going to the right room and match the name....there are many ways to protect yourself...Meet in public first...always always trust your gut....if it tells you to run then move on...

Mistress Sassa

Re: If you Play....read this before

Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:31 pm
by Alliteration
LadySassa07 wrote:I am not scared of this jerk off....he may get one over on my sweet little inexperienced sissy ( this was her first sex with a man) but I am a very experienced mad Mama Bear....

He has no clue that I know of his little deed.I am sure this was not the only time he has done this.He has asked to be bound....so I will take care of this request right off .....

I am going to call Andrea in at that time and let him tell me what he did and then Andrea and I are going to have a little fun...I will give Andrea the money from the session as well.. YOU DO NOT MESS WITH MY GIRLS!!!!!
So, when Andrea walks in, and this guy realizes what's going on, he's most likely going to demand to be untied. At this point, are you going to untie him? If you don't, you're no better than he is. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.

Re: If you Play....read this before

Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:23 pm
by jimmy
I mean no disrespect but this is one of the most foolish ideas/undertakings I have ever heard of.

Re: If you Play....read this before

Posted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 7:23 am
by timm
jimmy wrote:I mean no disrespect but this is one of the most foolish ideas/undertakings I have ever heard of.

If completely on the up and up I agree.....
Most likely this is what she wishes would happen.

If I were the bad guy, I wouldn't be waiting for you to tie me up before I tried to overpower you and have my way not so nice way with you, just a thought.
You said She was a CD?... does this mean she is a he dressed as a she or a she dressed as a he, I ask because some people might get upset when the girl there making out with has extra parts, I'm not defending what happened I'm just saying.
Unless your going to have backup like extra people (big mean people) a stun gun etc. this is as far as it should go, if you do this remember kidnapping, assault, attempted rape are pretty big crimes.
Its funny, I payed a Domme once to kidnap me, it was a lot of fun, she picked me up at a coffee shop and when I was in her car she blindfolded me, thing was she was like 5' nothing and maybe 100LBS wet, I'm 6' and 255LBS and was wearing my biker jacket, must of looked funny as hell when she walked me to her apartment, anyway point is I might have been doing what she told me but until she had me tied up I could have done what ever I wanted and did, I enjoyed handing over control.

Bad people are everywhere don't go looking for them you just might find one!
Move on and have fun with people that are looking to have fun.
Tim