Milovana.com

My mistress and i were talking about me being locked up last night. im very new to the idea and not too sure if its something i want to do, on the other hand it would make her happy and horny. our relationship is kinda long distance but we text chat and webcam with each other.

she said i would always have a key for emergency purposes and that if for some reason it got too uncomfortable i could take it of four a couple hours then put it back on.

my concern is mostly comfort i guess because my lifestyle is pretty active. i am a body builder so Im in th e gym almost everyday ( which she said i dont have to wear it at the gym) but other than that im out a lot, i do yard work when its warm and work construction sometimes.

i was wondering if anyone here whos tried or has been in chastity could maybe describe what its like? does it hurt when you get hard? is it ony for guys that are "small" down there? anything would be helpful.

thanks everyone

The single most important advise if you plan to go long term is definitely to get a custom steel CB which fits you perfectly. In order to get it right it pays to have some experience with a cheaper device first, to better be able to understand what measurements you ought to have.

Mature Metal (.com) and steelworxx (german?) are good alternatives, both making very high quality CBs to your exact measurements.

Expensive, but so worth it.

If you go down that route I also recommend having a look at this measurement guide - it's a real eye opener and will definitely ensure you get better specs than you would by doing your own guesswork: http://www.chastitymansion.com/forum/in ... msearch__1

okay I have tried seven different chastity belts

For your lifestyle I would recommend either the Bon
http://www.bon4.com/
which I have not personally tried

or the Dickcage
http://www.dickcage.com/
which I have tried and Love.

if you do not feel that a cage is appropriate, and Honestly for you it might Not be
because your so active,
I recommend that you buy a set of underwear all the same color, something that your partner finds sexy
and in their favorite color be that red, or blue, or...
while you are wearing the underwear you can NOT stroke at any time
and ONLY your partner or a dom/dommee can take off your undies
Of course you will need to briefly remove for potty breaks but other than than wear them constantly.
Unless specifically ordered not to
IF you have will power.. and it sounds like you do
those underwear will be the only chastity device you need.