Without chastity... (update)
Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2011 9:40 am
Hey guys,
Thanks again for all your advice - we've gone with sheer willpower!
It's now 10 days since I last came. It's strange but, although she teases me every day, I think it's actually getting easier for me to not touch myself, although I get hard a lot... That being said, it's not easier per se.
The longest I can remember ever going without cumming was about two weeks, but then I wasn't being teased - I was just really busy at the time and didn't have the opportunity to cum. She tells me I'm going to wait for another two weeks before I can cum. Scary...
I got a bit of a telling-off last night. She teased me and told me we were done for the night and I 'complained'. She made me a deal, I could either be content with what I got or she would tease me for another half-hour, but if I wanted to be teased some more she would add days... I actually went for the teasing/add days choice - how crazy is that?! She tied me up (again) and barely touched my cock, just held it while I wriggled and thrusted on her hand. She seemed to enjoy it... She stroked it eventually but only in return for a few promises: I'll do whatever she says. When she says "we're done" we're done, and I won't answer back. There were some more but I forgot them (oh no! I'd better ask her this morning - or maybe not?). And then she stopped. Well short of half an hour. I was true to my word and thanked her and said nothing. She congratulated me (too strong a word - she said "good boy") and told me that this wasn't the deal, this was a punishment for disobeying her. I'm not sure whether this means extra days or not.
Anyway, that's where we are. She is intent on teasing and denying me for the foreseeable future. I'm pretty frustrated at the moment (as I'm sure you can imagine) and she's offering no leeway in terms of putting me out of my misery. Let's not kid ourselves - I'm loving it (and hating it at the same time - you know what I mean) and she's loving it too.
Seems very ambitious though, not cumming until the week after next (although I'm sure the goalposts will move again...). I know a lot of you guys are very experienced in this matter - how do you do it?
Best,
P
Thanks again for all your advice - we've gone with sheer willpower!
It's now 10 days since I last came. It's strange but, although she teases me every day, I think it's actually getting easier for me to not touch myself, although I get hard a lot... That being said, it's not easier per se.
The longest I can remember ever going without cumming was about two weeks, but then I wasn't being teased - I was just really busy at the time and didn't have the opportunity to cum. She tells me I'm going to wait for another two weeks before I can cum. Scary...
I got a bit of a telling-off last night. She teased me and told me we were done for the night and I 'complained'. She made me a deal, I could either be content with what I got or she would tease me for another half-hour, but if I wanted to be teased some more she would add days... I actually went for the teasing/add days choice - how crazy is that?! She tied me up (again) and barely touched my cock, just held it while I wriggled and thrusted on her hand. She seemed to enjoy it... She stroked it eventually but only in return for a few promises: I'll do whatever she says. When she says "we're done" we're done, and I won't answer back. There were some more but I forgot them (oh no! I'd better ask her this morning - or maybe not?). And then she stopped. Well short of half an hour. I was true to my word and thanked her and said nothing. She congratulated me (too strong a word - she said "good boy") and told me that this wasn't the deal, this was a punishment for disobeying her. I'm not sure whether this means extra days or not.
Anyway, that's where we are. She is intent on teasing and denying me for the foreseeable future. I'm pretty frustrated at the moment (as I'm sure you can imagine) and she's offering no leeway in terms of putting me out of my misery. Let's not kid ourselves - I'm loving it (and hating it at the same time - you know what I mean) and she's loving it too.
Seems very ambitious though, not cumming until the week after next (although I'm sure the goalposts will move again...). I know a lot of you guys are very experienced in this matter - how do you do it?
Best,
P
