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I can see that happening. I think there is a tease series that kind of touched upon that, but I can't remember the name of it. It would take a pretty good story to get a lot of people interested in not having an orgasm, though lol

Well, like said earlier in the topic the you could make the punishment for cumming severe, or *a flame in gulfs me* have the cumming reward you with something great while also punishing you with something horrible. It makes for a WONDERFUL war in your head on whether or not you want the reward AND punishment.

An example would be if you were to cum your dom/me would allow you to have it in your preferred method, but you would have to endure immense pain after your arousal level has gone down

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^That's right I have reached the forums, you can get away *insert evil laugh here*

It almost makes sense Indi,
to me
Because I was so long in denial and doing so well,
I think I see your point
but it difficult to make a real release like that a bad thing..
I have felt a little depression after, so I know what your talking about
but you body wants the release so much that even knowing
depression it would be hard sell.

Indigo™ wrote: So, if the teasing and arousal are the sugar, wouldn't the orgasm be the stick?

Suprised that there isnt a ton of agreement from the other guys. I 100% agree with Indy, lately I've been viewing male orgasms as a curse I actually see this as a pretty logical thing, once you realise that sexual activity can be seperated from the orgasm. After being in denial for 8+ days, women are so much sexier, I can stroke for hours to striptease videos, and be really horny the next day. And stroke again to the beautiful beautiful gorgeous ladies. If there is orgasm, the lessening of sexual desire lasts for about a week. So the negative effect of an orgasm is not just the immediate depression thing Indy mentioned, but the fact that I'm not able to fully appreciate the ladies for the next 5 days or so. Given the tradeoff of 20 seconds of ecstasy vs 4-5 hrs of bliss (spread over 5 days), its a no brainer.
Adding to the view of it being a curse is that in the past 2 months, the orgasms which break my denial are always accidental ones which creep up on me, and are not very pleasurable as I have been trying to stop them and failed. Its like my penis spurts, but there is no mental pleasure.

Lately I've been having fantasies of getting a girlfriend who keeps me in lifelong denial.

I assume you don't mean to the extent of post-orgasm torture?

http://www.sunporno.com/tube/videos/459 ... art-2.html
(The fun in that video begins about 5:50 ... )

I don't know about you, but that one tells me not to cum .. I think I'd try to avoid it at all costs ... holy crap that appears "uncomfortable"

This method is about all I can think of that can realistically give a guy "incentive" not to cum ... however, it is along the lines mentioned: extreme torture after the fact ... just not sure if you get enough enjoyment out of it with this method of punishment! hehe

The weak point of this Idea in respect of a webtease, is the lack of interaction. With a real girl YES, that may be the case to an extent. Even in normal vanilla sex you want it to last longer, just to have more fun. But with a webtease.... Maybe someone can, but I can not seriously obey a picture with a text. I may decide to play along, but not obey. And doing a webtease is mostly for my pleasure, while in a real life it's for HER pleasure too. And when you are brought to the point of being really desperate to cum in a webtease, and given a choice... There's not much that actually holds you back. A webtease won't feel any thing, it won't do as much as a real girl and you won't get as much of a reward for waiting.

Actually if you find a good photoset a tease could be made, where you get rewards in the way of a model stripping more. For examample she teases you fully clothed, And then gives you the choice - to cum now, or she'll remove her dress and you get to enjoy her lingerie. After a while she gives you another option to cum, but if you decide to wait, she'll remove her bra, and so on untill you'll be rewarded with a final chance of cumming to a good shot of her pussy. That may be a motivation to go on.


I remember there were a tease by Decker, I believe, where a girl shows you her house and there are different teasing friends in a rooms. So tey tease you and every one of them gives you a chance to cum that decreases with every next girl. The point is that while first girls give you a very high chances, you are simply not hot enough and want some more. And further on the chances are too low to actually agree and you are forced to go on.

i LOVE the idea

cum is so icky and messy


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