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I've been having a nice session of orgasm denial for a week now. Everyday i watch a new T&D video, and replicate it myself. But it's recently occurred to me that there are no female orgasm denial videos or sites. If anyone knows good videos, sites or even pictures, please share?

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Yes -- whatever happened to her? You drove her crazy as I recall. :)

They refer to it as protecting her virginity but I am sure it is closely related to "denial"



http://boundheat.com/app/samplemovie/7

Simple and effective

I'v managed to gather about 6GB of female OD material from different sites, however it's really just a random videos. There really is no site like that, although I don't understand why.

bakerboy wrote:Simple and effective

Wow...this is amazing!!! *moans and squirms*

In action

This thread is not complete without a mention of our friends over at tantalism.org.

Also female denial teases are welcome on Milovana! It's mostly guys who write the male teases, so maybe we just lack some girls to step up and write some teases for female subs!

We have some, but as most are written by guys I'm not convinced they're very good. I think the best teases come about when people write what they'd like to read themselves.

seraph0x wrote:This thread is not complete without a mention of our friends over at tantalism.org.

Also female denial teases are welcome on Milovana! It's mostly guys who write the male teases, so maybe we just lack some girls to step up and write some teases for female subs!

We have some, but as most are written by guys I'm not convinced they're very good. I think the best teases come about when people write what they'd like to read themselves.

I would like to offer my respectful opinion here, if I may, beginning with a question. *soft smile*

Is there a way to know how many females there are actively at Milo? It's hard to think of writing a tease, which for me takes a good week to produce one, if only one, maybe two females might read it...enjoy it.
I don't see hardly any gender female submissives in the chat rooms, or writing posts. This leads me to believe there aren't many here.

Along those same lines, are the female submissives that are here, well, do they belong to Someone? If so, then permission would need to be sought out to participate in a webtease. Some Masters/Mistresses may not want their submissive following "orders" given from Another, or the submissive may not feel comfortable in taking orders from Another. I'm not saying that is the way it is, or isn't, in my life, but it is a possibility, which narrows the potential readers even lower.

Strictly speaking for me, I am not sure if I would feel right in writing a Tease for a female submissive, because I would feel that it might come across as my asking Master for what I am putting in the tease, sorta like a "hint...hint...hint", sorta thing. And could I keep from making it a "hint" sort of thing, I don't know. That seems to be a thin rope to walk.

My last thought is this. I have done a number of searches in the WebTease search box. No matter what words I use, I can never come up with "only" female teases. For instance, I just did a search using the words "For Female".
The first one that came up was called, "Sissy forever". I did look, just to make sure and I was right. It was designed for "sissy's", not gender females.
The second one that came up had this in the topic. "Topics: verbal-humiliation pain for-men private-humiliation kneeling."

The search box does not seem to produce the desired results.

So, perhaps there are some great teases lost in the millions of teases written, but we females are unable to find them, because of the way the teases are set up.
Would it be possible to sort the teases into two directories, one male, one female. I am not trying to leave out sissy's from this and I realize that it would have to be the writer's decision as to which category they would want their tease listed under, male or female, for such teases.
But it would help in locating gender specific teases.

Thank you for listening. *Soft smile*

Strictly speaking for me, I am not sure if I would feel right in writing a Tease for a female submissive, because I would feel that it might come across as my asking Master for what I am putting in the tease, sorta like a "hint...hint...hint", sorta thing. And could I keep from making it a "hint" sort of thing, I don't know. That seems to be a thin rope to walk.

don't know. Is it bad if your master finds out more about what you are interested in? I can't see why it could be.
Also everyone in the kink (and your master too) should know that there are differences between fantasy and what you are actually willing to do in life. For instance one may fantasize about a device implanted in a brain preventing all orgasms, but everyone knows very few would actually go for it even if they had a way. That's an example, but that actually applies to milder things too. So you can basically write things you don't actually want to be done to you. Without worrying that it actually "hints" something bad to your master.

It's not like you write it precisely to hint him on something, you know it, and I think he will belive you.

shell wrote:Is there a way to know how many females there are actively at Milo? It's hard to think of writing a tease, which for me takes a good week to produce one, if only one, maybe two females might read it...enjoy it.
I don't see hardly any gender female submissives in the chat rooms, or writing posts. This leads me to believe there aren't many here.

Along those same lines, are the female submissives that are here, well, do they belong to Someone? If so, then permission would need to be sought out to participate in a webtease. Some Masters/Mistresses may not want their submissive following "orders" given from Another, or the submissive may not feel comfortable in taking orders from Another. I'm not saying that is the way it is, or isn't, in my life, but it is a possibility, which narrows the potential readers even lower.

You're right, there's not. From what I've seen, most submissives (both here and in general) are male. Add to that the fact that most of the female submissives here are already taken (Dream, Akabi, etc.) and your target audience becomes quite small. However, I think their dominants, in most cases, would not mind if they did a tease - especially one written by you.

Another point is that while most of the female submissives are actually "serious" about it, most of the male submissives are just people happening upon the site, looking to get off. When's the last time a female logged into chat saying she would do anything to serve and begging to be teased, only to log off when no one responded? I've never seen it happen, but guys stroll by doing it on a daily basis. So, I think females are less likely to be interested in a tease, as they're more likely to have what they want already.

Strictly speaking for me, I am not sure if I would feel right in writing a Tease for a female submissive, because I would feel that it might come across as my asking Master for what I am putting in the tease, sorta like a "hint...hint...hint", sorta thing. And could I keep from making it a "hint" sort of thing, I don't know. That seems to be a thin rope to walk.

To avoid this, perhaps you could base the "story" on something you've done already, with him. Or, perhaps you could base it on something that he knows you do not like, so it's assured that it's only for others.

Maybe a tease written for couples would work as well - this would solve this problem, as well as the problem of not many unowned female submissives being available. You and he could write it together :)

So, perhaps there are some great teases lost in the millions of teases written, but we females are unable to find them, because of the way the teases are set up.
Would it be possible to sort the teases into two directories, one male, one female. I am not trying to leave out sissy's from this and I realize that it would have to be the writer's decision as to which category they would want their tease listed under, male or female, for such teases.
But it would help in locating gender specific teases.

I just had another idea. Perhaps you could find a tease for males that looks good, and "translate" it to work for females (with the author's permission of course). There was a couple in chat doing something like this in chat not too long ago - the male was doing a tease intended for females, doing ball slaps when the tease said to do pussy slaps, and stroking when the tease said to use a vibrator.

Nezhul wrote:

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Strictly speaking for me, I am not sure if I would feel right in writing a Tease for a female submissive, because I would feel that it might come across as my asking Master for what I am putting in the tease, sorta like a "hint...hint...hint", sorta thing. And could I keep from making it a "hint" sort of thing, I don't know. That seems to be a thin rope to walk.

don't know. Is it bad if your master finds out more about what you are interested in? I can't see why it could be.
Also everyone in the kink (and your master too) should know that there are differences between fantasy and what you are actually willing to do in life. For instance one may fantasize about a device implanted in a brain preventing all orgasms, but everyone knows very few would actually go for it even if they had a way. That's an example, but that actually applies to milder things too. So you can basically write things you don't actually want to be done to you. Without worrying that it actually "hints" something bad to your master.

It's not like you write it precisely to hint him on something, you know it, and I think he will belive you.

Obviously, I hestitate to respond because of the past, but there were words written kindly to me, and it's not my nature to ignore them. *soft smile*

You are correct, it would not be bad for Master to find out more of what interests me, although, He already knows the deepest, fantasy's that I have. *blushing smile*
And again, you are right that Master will believe what I share with Him, because I do not lie. *Smile*

As I reflect back to what I wrote, there was a constant in the back of my mind that I didn't write, and took the route that you quoted above, instead.

Let me try and put my thoughts to words, although I might fail as I try.

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I have tried three different times to write this, and each time I have deleted it. Perhaps that is why I didn't write it earlier.....the thoughts are in my head, but getting them to paper.....that is not easy.
Let me think on this and I will see if I can't come back and share them. *Smile*

Alliteration wrote:

shell wrote:

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Is there a way to know how many females there are actively at Milo? It's hard to think of writing a tease, which for me takes a good week to produce one, if only one, maybe two females might read it...enjoy it.
I don't see hardly any gender female submissives in the chat rooms, or writing posts. This leads me to believe there aren't many here.

Along those same lines, are the female submissives that are here, well, do they belong to Someone? If so, then permission would need to be sought out to participate in a webtease. Some Masters/Mistresses may not want their submissive following "orders" given from Another, or the submissive may not feel comfortable in taking orders from Another. I'm not saying that is the way it is, or isn't, in my life, but it is a possibility, which narrows the potential readers even lower.

You're right, there's not. From what I've seen, most submissives (both here and in general) are male. Add to that the fact that most of the female submissives here are already taken (Dream, Akabi, etc.) and your target audience becomes quite small. However, I think their dominants, in most cases, would not mind if they did a tease - especially one written by you.

Thank you for the compliment. *blushing smile*
Yes, I think that most Dominants would allow theirs to participate in a webtease, as part the things that they do together.

Another point is that while most of the female submissives are actually "serious" about it, most of the male submissives are just people happening upon the site, looking to get off. When's the last time a female logged into chat saying she would do anything to serve and begging to be teased, only to log off when no one responded? I've never seen it happen, but guys stroll by doing it on a daily basis. So, I think females are less likely to be interested in a tease, as they're more likely to have what they want already.

I agree, I haven't seen a female sub come in on the hunt, and in not finding, they leave, at least I haven't seen that here at Milo.

Speaking only for me....I don't need a Webtease, because I am content with what Master provides me with. That's not to say that if He found a Webtease that He wanted me to do, ordered me to do, that I would not rush to do it, doing each and every thing to the best of my ability. *smile*

Shell wrote:

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Strictly speaking for me, I am not sure if I would feel right in writing a Tease for a female submissive, because I would feel that it might come across as my asking Master for what I am putting in the tease, sorta like a "hint...hint...hint", sorta thing. And could I keep from making it a "hint" sort of thing, I don't know. That seems to be a thin rope to walk.

To avoid this, perhaps you could base the "story" on something you've done already, with him. Or, perhaps you could base it on something that he knows you do not like, so it's assured that it's only for others.

I will have to think about the idea of basing it on something we have already done. Although I am a very public person, Master is not.

I don't think I would want to do it on something that I don't like because for me, writing the tease is a very pleasurable experience. I stayed very wet and excited the whole time I was writing my first one.
If all it is is words, I would rather not write it.

Maybe a tease written for couples would work as well - this would solve this problem, as well as the problem of not many unowned female submissives being available. You and he could write it together :)

I saw a couples tease before...and it was very nice.
But there is a problem with that. You know that the ratio of female submissive's is low, it's nothing compared to the ratio of people that share this world with their partners in the outside world.
Both of my hubby's know what I do here. However, neither of them would want to sit here going through a tease together.

Perhaps I am wrong about how many couples would do something like that, but I don't think so.

Shell wrote:

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So, perhaps there are some great teases lost in the millions of teases written, but we females are unable to find them, because of the way the teases are set up.
Would it be possible to sort the teases into two directories, one male, one female. I am not trying to leave out sissy's from this and I realize that it would have to be the writer's decision as to which category they would want their tease listed under, male or female, for such teases.
But it would help in locating gender specific teases.

I just had another idea. Perhaps you could find a tease for males that looks good, and "translate" it to work for females (with the author's permission of course). There was a couple in chat doing something like this in chat not too long ago - the male was doing a tease intended for females, doing ball slaps when the tease said to do pussy slaps, and stroking when the tease said to use a vibrator.

*smiles softly* I like the creativity of coming up with my own stuff. It's not that I can't think of things to do for a female....trust me.....I love pussy! *grin*...Maybe not as much as cock, but I do love it! *giggling*

Great input, thank you. *Smile*

shell wrote:I saw a couples tease before...and it was very nice.
But there is a problem with that. You know that the ratio of female submissive's is low, it's nothing compared to the ratio of people that share this world with their partners in the outside world.
Both of my hubby's know what I do here. However, neither of them would want to sit here going through a tease together.

Perhaps I am wrong about how many couples would do something like that, but I don't think so.

Yeah, that's another problem in terms of audience size. I think maybe that each individual tease actually has a very small amount of people who actually do the whole thing. Speaking for myself, I flip through most teases when they go up, just to see what's in them...but it's rare for me to find one I actually like. The good thing about milo is that there's so much variety; perhaps the fact that there's not a lot of female subs doesn't matter so much?

*smiles softly* I like the creativity of coming up with my own stuff. It's not that I can't think of things to do for a female....trust me.....I love pussy! *grin*...Maybe not as much as cock, but I do love it! *giggling*

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