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I've hinted at my wife to tell her girl friends about me being locked in chastity. I think it would make it more interesting for both of us.

For sure she would have something interesting to talk with her friends about and maybe they will encourage her. I'm get really really turned on when talking about it with chicks. The bulge my Curve makes when i'm turned on also adds fun to the conversation. I'm not sure what the cons to this will be. I know I'm not interested in sharing this with the guys and when it happens I'm not really sure how i'm going to feel about it.

Has anyone already been down this road? Would be nice to get a been there done that perspective. I'm not into any of the Sissy fantasy. I'm more macho than most of my friends but I'm not big on the idea of explaining it to all my guy friends.

Another thing that's kinda holding my wife up is she doesn't really know how to broach the subject with her friends. Oddly enough they don't sit around talking about sex all the time like me and my friends do.

Snot, what about that story on how you got your wife into kinK?

I've been slacking off lately.

We took a really long break and I just got locked back up on the 7th. Speaking of which i need to update my sig. I plan to start posting more once some new things start happening.

I'd think long and hard (no pun intended) about the ramifications of expanding the number of people in the know.
While the thought of it may be arousing, the odds of a secret getting out increases to the square of the number of people who know it.
Or in other words, once the genie is out, I'd prepare myself for doing some explaining to the guys somewhere down the line.

Now, whether or not this is acceptable is obviously up to you.
Personally, I guard my privacy with a zeal bordering on paranoia, but everybody's different.
But if you think for a moment that something like this won't spread, you're deluding yourself.
It'll be too good not to share, even for vanilla people.

CheerfullyInsane

I've never been known for keeping things private. Pretty much all of my friends know i'm into ball busting and being kinky as hell in the bedroom. Its just different with chastity. I've been playing conversations out in my head and I haven't found any scenarios that I like.

Pretty much all I can come up with is that male chastity has a lot of stigma around it that makes it very difficult to express why I enjoy it to the guys. I mean its a given that trying to explain why you are willingly not having sex with your hot wife or cumming for a length of time to a group of vanilla male's is going to cause some heads to explode. Explaining to them that you really like it when she locks your cock up and jokes that she'll never let you out again... well that's going to change the way people think about you that's for sure.

In the long run though I doubt its going to matter much. Many people are into kinky shit and will start opening up to new things after they get over the initial shock.

Have any of you wanted to tell others about some of your kink? How did it play out? I guess its not very normal for someone to want to be open about their bedroom exercise routine but I've always been.

Do you keep the belt on 24X7? If so for how many days? I am curious about chastity belt myself but a little scared to try. You opinion will be very helpful.

johnglen wrote:Do you keep the belt on 24X7? If so for how many days? I am curious about chastity belt myself but a little scared to try. You opinion will be very helpful.

While locked up I keep it on 24/7. My wife put it on last Sunday and I've been sitting down to pee every since. =)

I'm not the most experienced person to ask. The longest I've ever been locked up for was just under a month. I love it and think its awesome but it takes some getting used to before you can ware it 24/7.

My advice would be to get a custom made stainless steel device. I started off with one of the CB models and its not very comfortable. It does the job and all but if I could go back I would just save up for an expensive one instead of going the cheap route. Check out Chastity Heaven's website they have alot of info to help you get in the know about what you need in a device. They are a re seller for Mature Meatless but they have decent prices. Also Lori makes good devices.

You might also check out the Male Chastity Blog its a great place to find info about chastity that isn't mixed up with fantasy and other fetishes. The lady that runs the blog also sells books to help you get your partner to be your keyholder.