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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 12:36 pm
by Sennia
Hello!

This is basically the post that caused me to sign up here. For there are definitely not enough teases for females, which I find peculiar, considering I've always thought of teasing being a primarily female kink!


So, yes, basically the text is almost all that matters for girls. We don't really get motivated so much by pictures like guys seem to, but if it's a well written lusty demand, girls are all over it.

As pictures are pretty necessary on this site though, a tip: Even for teases for straight girls, keep with pictures of girls, having them do what the tease is demanding. It makes the person feel oh-so-sexy when they're doing something kinky just like the girl on screen, and while they're not turned on by the girl, they're certainly turned on by having to do what the girl is doing.

Don't make the mistake of showing -all- buff guy pictures, guys are nice eye-candy and all, but more in a cute way than a sexual way. The main time I think it'd be appropriate, would be say... teasing the user into sucking a banana like a cock, and having a nice big cock on screen. That works very well. As long as the picture is directly related to what the user is doing, it's all good.


Lastly, every girl has different interests, so I can't comment on what'd be best. All I can really suggest is variety-- just, once again, as long as it doesn't focus too much on picture motivation.

My personal strongest turnon and motivator consists of 'gambles', where you are allowed to either stop whenever you want, or choose a 'lesser' tease, but you will be punished for it later.... for example, choosing either 50 spanks or 200 spanks, but if you choose 50, it'll say you'll have to do something -really- kinky at the end... it's a very hot dilemma. ^_^

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 1:27 pm
by dark
Sennia wrote:Hello!
Hi and welcome :wave:
For there are definitely not enough teases for females, which I find peculiar, considering I've always thought of teasing being a primarily female kink!
I always thaught it's the opposite. You know tabledance bars and strip clubs. I think that's pure teasing, but good to know that also women like it to be teased.
So, yes, basically the text is almost all that matters for girls. We don't really get motivated so much by pictures like guys seem to, but if it's a well written lusty demand, girls are all over it.
I think that's individual. For example I also prefer a good text. The pictures are just secondary.

About the other content of your post: Thank you! It was very interesting to read and I think the post includes some very good hints for authors in the future. Maybe we should write a guide "webteases for females" and make it sticky in the forum?

I would like that idea...

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 1:44 pm
by Sennia
dark wrote:
For there are definitely not enough teases for females, which I find peculiar, considering I've always thought of teasing being a primarily female kink!
I always thaught it's the opposite. You know tabledance bars and strip clubs. I think that's pure teasing, but good to know that also women like it to be teased.
It's true that stripclubs and such are pure teasing, but I'm almost certain that when it comes to the bedroom, teasing is everything the girl craves for! :lol:

I guess it's a case of the same kink in different circumstances. ^_^

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 1:54 pm
by pleezz
Sennia welcome!
it's nice to have more girls around this site
i wont mind if there are more teases for women with pictures of males
but it takes time for us to produce teases for girls, becoz boys are always horny n selfish when it comes to the sexual field

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 2:49 pm
by dark
pleezz wrote:... becoz boys are always horny n selfish when it comes to the sexual field
I disagree. Our site shows that there are men who get their sexual pleasure with serving and giving pleasure to women. You know every person is individual ;-)

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 3:00 pm
by alpahde5
wow i didn't think there would be any woman interested in teases, if that's the case ill get right on it lol.

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 4:57 pm
by dark
alpahde5 wrote:wow i didn't think there would be any woman interested in teases, if that's the case ill get right on it lol.
We already have some teases for women. But to be honest I never read one :lol: I can't say if they have a high quality.

There is also a teasing site for women: http://www.tantalism.org

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 5:16 pm
by Sennia
Many thanks for pointing that site out dark, I'd not heard of it before!

It certainly appeals to me. <3

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 5:26 pm
by alpahde5
oh yeah never noticed that site before, if we see a sudden drop in milovana users now we know why lol :lol:

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 8:28 pm
by seraph0x
alpahde5 wrote:if we see a sudden drop in milovana users now we know why lol :lol:
We have worked with them before and they even linked us. The admin is one of the nicest people I've ever met from the industry. We'll definitely do some more stuff with them if the opportunity arises.

Welcome Sennia. Thanks so much for speaking up! We're always trying to push the envelope, but we need more members willing to go in new directions. I don't think Milovana has to be limited to either Femdom or T&D. After all, one or our most successful teases that brought many new members to the site was about a foot fetish. :-)

Also thanks for your little collection of tips and tricks for female teasing. I have a feeling this post is going to be a true classic. :thumbsup:

So, please stick around if you like and help us get to the next level! :smile:

Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 2:08 pm
by dark
Sennia wrote:Many thanks for pointing that site out dark, I'd not heard of it before!

It certainly appeals to me. <3
I'm glad you like it. But I hope we don't loose you now to the other site :lol:

Re: Thoughts on a tease for hetero / bi women

Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2014 3:23 pm
by zenlover
I'm re-energizing this thread, as I think there might be some women here with a good viewpoint these days. Guys, let's keep our opinions to ourselves and let the women speak for themselves.

My question is as written in the IP on this thread, a good few years ago. I also think that if there were teases for women or couples that were sensual, and had no humiliation/pain, but just pleasurable tease and delay, people like my wife might be interested in engaging. So far, I have not seen any of the couples teases go in this direction...

I still wonder about imagery. What kind of images might be good for a woman?

Please help us ladies!

Re: Thoughts on a tease for hetero / bi women

Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2014 4:43 pm
by Banquo
zenlover wrote: I still wonder about imagery. What kind of images might be good for a woman?

Please help us ladies!

This is something I have always found the hardest thing to decide when making teases aimed at women.