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Forced Feminization??
Posted: Mon Jul 04, 2011 11:05 pm
by smallslave
Hi all,
Just a quick question i guess as im kinda unsure about something.
Im not really interested in being feminized and have told my mistress this, however she has ordered me to wear thongs 5 days a week, and just recently she made me wear nail polish on my toenails..
Would you say she is trying to force feminzation upon me?
Thanks for the help!
Re: Forced Feminization??
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 12:22 am
by Griffyn
I'm no expert, but it would seem from the limited information you've given that you don't really get it.
There's two of you in this relationship, and only she gets off on deciding what will happen to you. It should be irrelevent (within boundaries) to you what she wants you to do. If you are truly submissive, the act of doing whatever she wants should be your enjoyment. If she is sadistic as well as dominant, then it makes perfect sense that she will tell you to do things that she knows you don't want to do. As a submissive, this should heighten your arousal further, as you should be striving to give her as much enjoyment as possible.
Re: Forced Feminization??
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 5:35 am
by Handcuffed
Griffyn wrote:I'm no expert, but it would seem from the limited information you've given that you don't really get it.
There's two of you in this relationship, and only she gets off on deciding what will happen to you. It should be irrelevent (within boundaries) to you what she wants you to do. If you are truly submissive, the act of doing whatever she wants should be your enjoyment. If she is sadistic as well as dominant, then it makes perfect sense that she will tell you to do things that she knows you don't want to do. As a submissive, this should heighten your arousal further, as you should be striving to give her as much enjoyment as possible.
Agreed, unless it is a limit of his.
If it is, you certainly shouldn't be "forced" to do it.
Re: Forced Feminization??
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 5:59 am
by mmdead2002
smallslave wrote:Im not really interested in being feminized and have told my mistress this
Tell her it is a hard limit...if she doesn't respect that, then get out. You have to trust the person you submit to and you have to obey, but if they are careless with your needs then you would be crazy to stay.
Just my $0.02
Re: Forced Feminization??
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 8:54 am
by les
From what you say she is encouraging you bit by bit so that you gradually acquiesce.
I suggest you go along for now.
You have already said you have a problem so I expect the process to continue gently and discreetly.
Re: Forced Feminization??
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 5:04 pm
by slaveashish
talk to her man
Re: Forced Feminization??
Posted: Tue Jul 05, 2011 11:50 pm
by smallslave
Thank you for the help, i have had a little chat and it is going smoothly now :)