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reasons a mistress would like to do tease and denial on slav
Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 2:27 am
by jjsubslut
i know the reasons subs and slaves like to be teased and denied sometimes but what benifeits does it have for the mistress?
thanks
Re: reasons a mistress would like to do tease and denial on
Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 6:42 am
by SexualChoc
well
often it seems to be cash and sometimes lot's of it
professinaly Mistresses can make 100's if not 1000's an hour in fees
and unlike hookers there clients ofte do not get a 'happy ending'
I can speak as a DOM (not domme) and say there is a visceral
thrill to seeing someone tormented.
Re: reasons a mistress would like to do tease and denial on
Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 10:23 am
by Evals
If you're talking within the contexts of a D/s (Dominance & submission) relationship, then it's fairly clear.
Why does a sub seek tease and denial? For the pure enjoyment of submitting, if he is a submissive at heart. It has the possibility of showing how much he trusts her, and how far he is able to go. Why does a Mistress seek to tease and deny? For the pure enjoyment of dominating, if she is a dominant at heart. It's satisfying to hear having that final levels of control over him, so personal and intimate.
If you are talking more along the lines of utilitarianism, it doesn't take much thought easier. For the person being denied, the resulting orgasm is said to be much more powerful. For the person doing the denying, it makes the other person a lot more receptive to commands and requests. I would think anybody who hasn't had release for a lengthy amount of time is much more susceptible to the power of suggestion by the person holding the key.
Re: reasons a mistress would like to do tease and denial on
Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 11:54 am
by les
Its definitely a two way street.
The Dom/me needs to have feedback from the sub otherwise its just like a web tease or reading a story.
As a Dom I want to hear what the sub/slave is feeling/needing/wanting.
But definitely not want to hear demands.
Of trying to "Top From the Bottom"
As a sub/slave I do that, I read carefully the instructions, if I am unsure I ask for clarification.
Not just go the way I Want it to be.
It's about respect and trust.
Neither side should need to demand and all conversations should show and reciprocate those feelings.
A sub/slave will have a better time if the Dom/me is enjoying the scene/scenario, "vice versa"
I repeat feedback is sent and received both ways.